Dec
21

The Gift of Gifts

Valley of Vision- The Gift of Gifts

O Source of all Good,
What shall I render to Thee for the gift of gifts,
Thine own dear Son, begotten, not created,
my Redeemer, Proxy, Surety, Substitute,
His self-emptying incomprehensible,
His infinity of love beyond the heart’s grasp.

Herein is wonder of wonders:
He came below to raise me above,
He was born like me that I might become like Him.

Herein is love;
when I cannot rise to Him He draws near on wings of grace,
to raise me to Himself.

Herein is power;
when Deity and humanity were infinitely apart
He united them in indissoluble unity, the uncreated and the created.

Herein is wisdom;
when I was undone, with no will to return to Him,
and no intellect to devise recovery,
He came, God-incarnate, to save me to the uttermost,
as man to die my death,
to shed satisfying blood on my behalf,
to work out a perfect righteousness for me.

O God, take me in spirit to the watchful shepherds,
and enlarge my mind;
let me hear good tidings of great joy,
and hearing, believe, rejoice, praise, adore,
my conscience bathed in an ocean of repose,
my eyes uplifted to a reconciled Father,
place me with ox, donkey, camel, goat,
to look with them upon my Redeemer’s face,
and in Him account myself delivered from sin;
let me with Simeon clasp the new-born Child to my heart,
embrace Him with undying faith,
exulting that He is mine and I am His.

In Him Thou hast given me so much that heaven can give no more.

Via -  Don Witney [Arthur Bennett, ed., The Valley of Vision (Edinburgh: The Banner of Truth Trust, 2002), 28-29.]

Esme


Dec
05

To be Blessed

In the first chapter of Luke, Elizabeth says, Blessed is she who has believed that what the Lord has said to her will be accomplished” (NIV).  Elizabeth is saying to Mary – and to us – “if you really believe what the angel told you about this baby, if you take it in, you’ll be blessed.”

But our English word “blessed” is so limp and lightweight.  In English we use blessed to mean something like “inspired.” But in the Hebrew and Greek Scriptures, the word for blessed meant something much deeper than that.  To be blessed brings you back to full shalom [peace], full human functioning; it makes you everything God meant for you to be.  To be blessed is to be strengthened and repaired in every one of your human capacities, to be utterly transformed.

What Elizabeth is saying to Mary, and what Luke is saying to us is, “Do you believe that this beautiful idea of the incarnation will really happen?  If you believe it, and if you will take it into the center of your life, you’re blessed, transformed, utterly changed.”

(~Tim Keller quoted in “Come Thou Long-Expected Jesus”)

Oh, we’ve been blessed.  May we have the courage and compassion to point others to the One that can truly bless them.

Esme

Dec
01

Tis’ the Season to be Jolly?

Shopping, baking, family gatherings, traffic, gift wrapping, advent, Christmas concerts, cookie exchanges, tree trimming. Yes, that’s right, it’s Christmas time! We are all fa-la-la-la-la-ing, right? This is a great time of year. It is the time where we begin to see more family, eat tasty cookies and not feel guilty about it, listen to that Christmas music that moves us and helps us remember that God became man and dwelt among us, and give to loved ones. Or, that sometimes translates into baking for hours while breaking up arguments and screaming at your children, shopping with morons, driving among insane people, acting like martyrs because we have to spend time with old Uncle Creeps Me Out, and spending tons of money we don’t have. Anything sound familiar?
Tis the season to be jolly? This is the season where impatience, frustrations, anger, and bitterness (the Scrooge in us), likes to rear its ugly head. These sins come from the heart. The crazy shoppers, bad traffic, creepy uncles, and less than angelic children (unless yours are droids from another planet), just squeeze the heart a little and what is already there comes spilling out with the greatest of ease. This is the ugly side of humanity. The reason we need the Messiah that was promised all those years ago and the reason we do all the things we do around the holidays, remembering that the promise was fulfilled in God’s only Son, Jesus.
So Ladies, how are we going to be purposeful this Christmas season to do battle against the sin that is waiting to come out? How are we purposing to be a blessing and a pleasure to our family, neighbors, fellow shoppers and drivers? We want Jesus to be exalted, right? We want our children to see Him as the greatest treasure of all, right? That is hard to do when you are cranky, irritable, frustrated, or flat out mean.
Here are just a few suggestions to help you be purposeful and cultivate a joyful, gracious, and giving heart that battles sin during the Christmas season.
  • Remember the gospel. Steep yourself in the word of God. Let it wash over you, think about it, memorize it, talk about it, journal, read, read, and read. Do not let the busy hustle and bustle of this time of year steal time away from seeking to feast on God through His Word. As you approach His word in faith, He grows you, convicts you, and washes you with joy as you see all His promises and His love for you. Let the Word inform you, shape you, and control you. We cannot walk in a manner worthy of His calling if we have no idea what a worthy manner is and how God has called us and all He has done for us.
  • Worship with your family. May I suggest that you pick devotions that will focus your mind on God fulfilling His promise to save his people through His Son? There are advent calendars and devotional readings that are helpful in cultivating the discipline of remembering  throughout the month of December what God has done for us.
  • Blast the Christmas Music. You read right. Crank up the music and sing loud and long. Enjoy it! Think about the words and allow yourself to simply worship as so many of these songs tell us the story of the birth of God’s only Son and reminds us that God stepped into history and made the way to bring sinners to Himself.
  • Love your family. As you remember the grace given to you, the forgiveness you have received because God became man, died, rose again, and gave you life in His name, enjoy your family. Treat them like gifts from God because that’s what they are. Serve them like Jesus served you. Bake for them. Give to them. Hug them. Pray over them. Pray with them. Thank God for them. Include them in your activities and show them patience even when they do not do things the way you would.
  • Put people before your plans. You should have a plan. It really does help you get the shopping done, put up the tree, have consistent devotions,  and conquer the baking. Plan when you will bake, when you will shop; schedule your tree trimming. Plan family activities and include friends; such as driving to see the lights, visiting a nursing home, and making decorations and gifts for others. But remember,  everyone and everything does not have to fall in line with your plans. Sickness hits, trials do not get put on hold because it is Christmas, children need to be trained and cared for in ways that might not be a part of your itinerary, or a friend may need you. Be other oriented as you go about your plans.
As we bake, shop, drive, and celebrate; let us arm ourselves with the Word of God, walking in the Spirit, clothed in the apron of a servant, cheerful, patient and overflowing with kindness.
By Jasmine Aldrich

Nov
23

Enter Thanksgiving with Thanksgiving

As I go about preparations for our Thanksgiving celebration tomorrow, my mind is flooded with memories of my childhood. For sure the holidays weren’t perfect, but the sights and sounds and smells of Thanksgiving made it seem that way.   Our home on Thanksgiving was always busy, busy, busy. For as long as I can remember my mom and grandma would work hard to make the traditional Turkey dinner. And our home would be full. I guess that is why it seems natural to have a houseful myself as I have taken over hosting.

My great-grandmother would make us memorize poetry and recite it on special occasions such as Thanksgiving . I would write plays (mainly dealing with pilgrims and indians) and my sister, Kat, would make the costumes and we would force our younger siblings to perform with us. Our family would applaud and make a big deal about it.  Thanksgiving was always a time to enjoy family and practice hospitality. Anyone was welcome.

Today, things are very similar.  We love Thanksgiving. It is a time to enjoy family and share our delight in being together with whomever so chooses to show up.  We still do the big traditional Turkey dinner,  but there are no plays. I think my daughter would happily write them like I did when I was younger, but I believe her brothers would be much harder to convince to perform…. well, all but Calvin.

Cultivating thankfulness to God is something very important in the Aldrich household. It is the way we strive to kill grumbling, complaining, and pride in our hearts. We have intentional questions we ask ourselves and our children and it is a big part of everyday life. But, we see Thanksgiving as a time where we can be extra intentional.

We have memorized “thanksgiving” Psalms, such as Psalm 100.

We have made placemats for dinner guests with their name and what we are especially thankful for about them. We have made things for other special people in our lives to purposely express thankfulness for who they are and how much they have been used in our lives.

This year, we have been working on a hymn, Count Your Blessings. My fingers are cramped from playing guitar (I haven’t played in I don’t know how long), and it has been pitifully played, but we are having a blast and it is helping us remind each other of how our Heavenly Father has cared for us this past year. We also revived this “blessing jar” my mother-in-law bought us years ago. Each evening we write out something we want to thank God for or how He is working in our lives and place it in the jar, so later we can pull the papers out and remember.

All of this is to train our minds, so as we have fun getting together with our family and friends, we come with solid, truth soaked joy. So we enter the day with thanksgiving; rather than stress and tension. We find no reason to fight and argue, display bitterness and contempt toward others when grounded in the reality of all that God has done and is doing in us and through us.

We can face the hard realities that we come face to face with this time of year, because we are overwhelmed by the work and grace of God in our lives, and we are grateful for it!

May God graciously make us grateful people, who enter Thanksgiving with thanksgiving.


Psalm 100

1 Shout joyfully to the LORD, all the earth.
2 Serve the LORD with gladness;
Come before Him with joyful singing.
3 Know that the LORD Himself is God;
It is He who has made us, and not we ourselves;
We are His people and the sheep of His pasture.

4 Enter His gates with thanksgiving
And His courts with praise.
Give thanks to Him, bless His name.
5 For the LORD is good;
His lovingkindness is everlasting
And His faithfulness to all generations.

Happy Thanksgiving everyone!

Jasmine Aldrich

Nov
22

3rd Annual Cookie Exchange

Ladies, please join us for the 3nd Annual Cookie Exchange at Missio Dei Fellowship.  The past two years have a been a great time of fun, fellowship, and encouragement…and we can’t forget that we all got to leave with all those amazing cookies to take home.  Encourage your friends, co-workers, neighbors, etc. to participate with you, or even buddy up and split all the cookies at the exchange.

There will be some amazing prizes from ThirtyOne. Two great products to give away to the top two best packaged cookie winners, and two door prizes that everyone is eligible for.

So, open up your recipe box, book, or browser, and start looking for that perfect cookie recipe and packaging ideas.
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Don’t wait, RSVP TODAY! Be sure to RSVP by e-mail or Facebook message!  Deadline is November 26th. Further info will be emailed after that with how many cookies to bake.
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Have fun! and looking forward to seeing you ladies in a few weeks!

By Kendal Barriere

Nov
22

Treasuring God in Our Traditions

Noel Piper’s book, Treasuring God in Our Traditions is a wonderful little book packed with principals and and practical advise. Noel Piper opens her home to us through her book and shows how they put hands and feet to the goals they set forth for their family. This book is dear to me because it has helped shape how our family does things. We are not the Piper’s, so some of our ‘Everyday” and “Especially” tradition look different, but the vision that drives these things are the same. We want to see God as our greatest treasure, we want our children to delight in Him and find Him to be their greatest treasure. And though, God alone can do this work in our hearts, as parents we have a responsibility to speak of God as we lie down, sit up, and walk by the way. In other words, God is our life-the center of our thinking and acting. And this must be tangible. And traditions are a great thing to establish in the life of your family early on to have opportunities to teach, serve, and cultivate love for God and express delight in Him.

If you read this book, and I recommend you do, you will open the cover and right inside read: “Noel Piper believes that by our traditions we can help the next generation treasure God, and at the same time deepen our own love for Him. Only God can give our children a taste for His sweetness. Only God can awaken them to His worth. But He uses means. He uses God-centered traditions and Bible-saturated family patterns and grace-laden heirlooms.”

I believe it,too.  I can reflect on traditions passed down to me that have burned the things of God deep in my mind and heart. They were such a part of us that it is hard to escape them.  Noel Piper lays out everyday traditions,such as, family worship, prayer, Bible reading, singing,and reading out loud with the kids.She then gets into what she calls, “Especially Traditions”. That is where she deals with birthdays, gotcha days (for adoptive families), and Holidays.

We have entered the Holidays Season and I think it is the perfect time to read this book and take some time to think through your traditions. Do you have any? What is the purpose behind them? Should you embrace some you have forsaken? Start new ones with purpose?  Maybe tweak a few already established traditions?

This is not just for people with kids. I recommend this to newly married and even single people. How purposeful are you being to establish God-centered patterns or traditions in your own life? Have any of you newly married couples even begun to think about what your vision for your family is and how you are going to go about putting feet to that vision. Thanksgiving, Christmas, and Easter are easy, wide open opportunities to establish traditions to help you cultivate love for Christ and express Him as your greatest treasure.

There was a time when Rick and I did not have children. I know it is hard to believe and it wasn’t that way for very long, but the fact that my husband and I had already talked about and established a vision for our family helped a great deal in establishing family traditions. Of course over the years that vision has gotten more refined and detailed and some traditions have been adapted or even changed. A lot has stayed the same, though.

Let us consider what Noel Piper says in her book: “Our homes are the universities where our children learn about their world and how to live. What kind of basic “courses” are we offering them? As Christians, we want God to be the core of the curriculum. We want our children to be learning to know God and relate to him. God has given us his Word to help us and our children know him. And he has taught us to pray so that we can have a constant relationship with him.”

So what are you teaching your children this Holiday Season? How intentional are you being?

I would love to hear about some of your Thanksgiving traditions. Please respond in the comments section. You may be helping other families out with ideas if you share.

Lord willing, tomorrow, I will share some of our Thanksgiving traditions.

Lord Bless,
Jasmine Aldrich

Nov
09

Sandy’s Decorating Corner: Fall Frenzy

With Thanksgiving just around the corner, let’s take a look at some ways that we can make the look of our homes match the sweet aroma’s coming from our kitchens. We can bring the beautiful colors of the season indoors. With some colorful fabric, flowers, leaves or branches, we can add a little spice to any room.

You can go for a walk and look for some leaves or branches that you can use. Those of you with little ones can turn this into a field trip. Arrange the branches in a vase or use them to make a wreath or swag. You can press the leaves in between the glass of a nice picture frame and have an instant piece of fall artwork.

Find some fabric and make a slip cover for your throw pillows or even make a throw that you can lay over the arm of a chair.

If you have candles, change them out for ones with fall colors. With some candles, silk flowers and leaves, you can make a stunning centerpiece for you table.

Do you have book shelves? Add a colorful candle or decorative piece among the books to add a little warmth. Right now the prices of fall decorations are marked down so you don’t have to spend a whole lot.

Don’t neglect the other rooms in your home. You can switch out your hand towels and soaps in your bathrooms or your pot holders and kitchen towels in your kitchen.

Remember, ladies, with a little time and effort, you can make your home look spectacular for the season. Let’s open our homes and make them inviting and warm for our family and friends.

By Sandy Lamb

Oct
08

A Glimpse Into our Retreat

Having been given the opportunity to take pictures at the retreat was a great blessing to me, and I hope the pictures and this video will be a blessing to you as well. Enjoy!

-Nicole

Oct
03

Thank you for your acts of service!

With our first ever SW retreat behind me, getting some much needed rest, and jumping back into my mommy clothes, I was able to sit down and take some time to note a few key people that helped us pull this event together.  It was truly a joint effort and act of service.

Anyone who knows me well knows that I have a lot of limitations. In this ministry, my limitations become all the more magnified whenever I set out to plan a large event.  I simply cannot do or think of everything there is to do.  So I surround myself with ladies whose creativity and strengths are different than mine. When I had the green light to go ahead and put the pieces of this puzzle together, I wasted no time in asking some very reliable women to help me.

Angie Arthur was the woman with the design.  I gave her my vision and my theme; she got to work and came up with our color scheme and logo design for this event.  It was no easy task because we were taking two ministry logos and combining them. But, Angie rose to the task and delivered a nice design.  The beauty of working with Angie is that she is willing to work until she gets it right.  She doesn’t take it personally when I say no, or when I ask for more changes.  She was also the woman behind all of those bathroom & s’more treats you all enjoyed in your rooms.  I love Angie’s resourcefulness, creativity, and easy going personality!

Jody Lokken was the woman with the computer savvyness needed to set up our online payment options.  She also ran our PowerPoint and videos the day of the conf. (just a small detail). Jody is super reliable and prompt in any task you give her.  I never had to worry about Jody; she rolls up her sleeves and gets to work.

Sandy Lamb was the woman behind the warmth and decor throughout the venue.  Sandy’s heart of service was evident till the end.  She had just undergone knee surgery, and with pain and crutches, she came to the venue early, and ran her crew of ladies to bring us a warm and welcoming experience in the dining room and throughout.

Judy Love was our room/registration coordinator.  She had the difficult task of organizing our sleeping arrangements.  She gave thought and consideration to the many requests she received, and did her very best to accommodate everyone’s needs and wants.  She and her crew of ladies also ran our registration table the day of the retreat and can I say – it went without a glitch.

Sherri Stocker has an eye for details, and it showed.  The notebooks she creatively decorated were truly an item of welcome when you first stepped into the conference room.  Her labor of love brought smiles to many faces.

Kristi Hamilton ran the music.  She, Denni Kraus, Leana Mueller, and Sherri Stocker devoted a great deal of time to deliver a sweet time of worship in song.  Kristi is young, but she is learning a great deal of leadership skills through these opportunities.  She has an ear for music and she strives to do it well.  Her grace and skills served us all well as she and her group filled our retreat with great music to express our emotions to our Lord and Savior.

Our prayer team included Holli O’Keefe, Sherri Stocker,  Sandy Lamb, Shelly Smith, Vicki Anderson, and Judy Love.  Their commitment to pray was truly an act of worship and humble reliance upon God for all our needs.  Amidst the busyness of the summer months these ladies committed their time and energy to meeting every week and bow down before the Lord in prayer.  We dared to pray boldly, simply, and with great expectation that the Lord would hear and act on our behalf.

David Hamilton worked tirelessly to set up and ran our sound.

Nicole Julius was on duty capturing some moments with her camera all throughout the retreat (on another day we’ll post some pictures).

Char Baumann gifted the ladies bookmarks as a small token of her appreciation for them.

And of course, Liz & Jaz were my partners in crime.  They graciously followed suit with their tasks as well down to the very end.  Their God-given strengths and love for the gospel was always a great source of encouragement not only for me but for those they so faithfully served.

 

At the risk of leaving out names, I really wanted to especially thank all those who put in an incredible amount of hours helping us pull this together.  For the rest, I trust you know God saw your humble service and know He will reward you in the Day to come.  But please know all of us are grateful for your service whether great or seemingly small. I’ve received many e-mails and words of appreciation for the work you all did —- obviously it showed!

 

Again, my most sincere thanks for serving in this retreat, and let’s not forget, for putting up with me…

 

For from Him and through Him and to Him are all things. To Him be the glory forever! Amen. (Rom 11:36)

 

Sep
26

“The Valley”

I know so many of you haven’t been feeling well or have little ones who are sick.  I was making my list of people to pray for that are either sick, had  surgery, or are going to have surgery and I was taken aback at the number of people I know that are having physical trials.

It reminded me of the book I had just finished reading:  My Wife Her Shining Life by Dr. Jim Rosscup.  It is “the chronicles” if you will, of both the author and his wife’s genealogy and their life together as a married couple.  You have to marvel at the grace of God even before the author was called to serve Him.  His wife’s life was filled with struggles as she lived with a lung disease and she struggled to breath on a daily basis.  It seemed like her life was marked by one hardship after another.  I could see why her husband loved her to pieces, for in her weakness she showed great strength.  He pretty much credits all of his accomplishments, besides to the Lord, to her.  Their story is a beautiful picture of the oneness God intended for marriage.

He quotes some of the stanzas of  her favorite poem (pg. 216) and I can see why she loved it so much.  It is a call to bear up under our struggles with great courage and faith.  May it encourage you in your affliction this day.

 

The Valley

“I have been through the valley of weeping,

The valley of sorrow and pain;

But the ‘God of all comfort’ was with me,

At hand to uphold and sustain.

 

“When He leads through some valley of trouble,

His powerful hand we can trace;

For the trials and sorrows He sends us

Are part of His lessons of grace.

 

“Oft we shrink from the purging and pruning,

Forgetting the Husbandman knows

The deeper the cutting and pruning,

The richer the cluster that grows.

“As we travel through life’s shadowed valley,

Fresh springs of His love ever rise;

And we learn that our sorrows and losses

Are blessings just sent in disguise.

 

“So we’ll follow wherever He leadeth,

Though pathways be dreary of bright;

For we’ve proof that our God can give comfort,

Our God can give songs in the night.”

 

– Author Unknown

 

Esme

 

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